Court Should Allow Women To Sue Men For Heartbreaks
Have you ever been heartbroken? Like you love someone today and they love you too or at least pretend to do so but tomorrow you wake up and have to put pieces together to look intact because they have moved on or even tired?
I’m speaking on behalf of the women because according to science, we are more likely than men to experience more damage. I will take you back to findings from researchers at Birmingham University and University College London who interviewed 5,705 women and men to rate the emotional and physical pain that comes with breakups. Women reported a 6.84 score when it came to emotional anguish compared to the 6.58 men. The difference was greater for physical pain.
In the movies, it is always portrayed that once a guy breaks up with a woman, she screams, curses, eats ice cream and cries on the phone with her best friend. Some go ahead to get that haircut and a glow up, turning the pain and vulnerability into something more powerful.
That is how Hollywood depicts heartbreaks in women, but sorry to burst your bubble because it is worse than that in real life. It is one of the worst and most painful physical feelings ever and we do not even talk about it enough.
There is that heavy pounding that causes you to throw up, cry until you can’t breathe or even pass out very late in the night from exhaustion. Once you wake up, you just lie on your back and let the tears stream down your face because you have run out of energy for the big sobs.
The heaviness in your chest, like the insides of your heart getting punched. Your heart is being torn apart. Not shattered, not crushed but RIPPED. The heart is literally being slashed on a grater. The man that you knew in your adult life takes a piece of you every second he makes it clear that you are able to laugh it out with him yet not be together. It is so real and painful to the point that you want to take your heart out so you can’t feel the pain anymore.
Most cases sleep starts to be scarce and you are filled with a mixture of anger, confusion, shame, and losing composure. He runs away with your heart and now you are supposed to keep going despite missing part of you? I doubt it.
Heartbreak is having a good day then all over sudden, being hit by a wave of sadness because you have probably heard his favorite song playing across the streets. You change his contact name on your phone while you avoid going through the messages that were sent before.
Basically the word ‘pain’ does not do this feeling justice; there is no single word that could possibly describe the emotions. All the pains in life are easy; only heartbreak is the worst. I can only compare it to when someone stabs your heart and keeps pushing the knife deeper and deeper. THE KING OF WORST FEELINGS.
Do not even get me started on that little transition period when he starts being really mean because he is moving on to someone else. You are literally grieving someone that was not who you thought they were.
He has not broken up with you yet but you see them moving on. The special pain of having to beg somebody to do something with you and then later seeing him do it with someone else and willingly, canceling plans and lying about it being something else.
Then you ask him what you really did wrong because he has been acting weird and he says you are tripping or calls you crazy. The gaslighting, self-doubt and questions on how and why you were not enough.
If you are a godly woman who just goes to church or says your prayers before and after bed, my fellow woman that is the time you need to double up your prayer life and always be armored. You should be showing up in your Father’s presence all the time, everywhere with a bucket of tears and a runny nose because only He can understand what it is.
I just have a question for the men out there; Do you ever go through a heartbreak? Like the one where you do not eat, lock yourself in the bathroom and cry under a running shower or even feel your heart pounding from outside? I do not really think so because you are always on the roll.
I suggest as women, we need a heartbreak court where we can sue someone for breaking our hearts. Not forgetting as a nation, to get day and hug all women who are heartbroken because there is a lot they cannot say out loud.
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