“Sirudi Nyumbani Tena”:Msichana Adai Familia Yake Ilimdhuru Kimawazo
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Mwanamke mmoja wa Nigeria ameshiriki hadithi ya kuhuzunisha inayofichua jinsi alivyokaribia kupagawa akili akiwa nyumbani na wazazi wake.
Kulingana na yeye, kila wakati alikuwa na huzuni nyumbani, lakini kila kitu kilibadilika alipoondoka nyumbani.
@dianankem TikTok Alikariri kwamba hatarudi nyumbani tena kwa sababu ya kumbukumbu mbaya alizokuwa nazo kwao.
Kulingana naye, baadhi ya wazazi wa Nigeria hawana nafasi na wakati wa kumfundisha mtoto wao kwani hawakumchukulia vyema hata kama mtoto wa mwisho nyumbani.
Msichana huyo pia alitaja kwamba wazazi wake walitaka kudhibiti maisha yake lakini anafanya vizuri zaidi mbali na nyumbani sasa.
Kwa maneno yake: “Sitarudi nyumbani kamwe. Nilikaribia kupoteza akili yangu kukaa huko, ukweli kwamba wanajua jinsi wanavyokudhuru na bado wanafanya kama hawaoni ubaya wake.
“Wazazi wengi wa Nigeria hawana kazi ya kufundisha mtoto kwa uaminifu. Mimi nilikuwa mtoto wa mwisho na mwenye huzuni zaidi, walijaribu kudhibiti maisha yangu vibaya sana, sitaki kusema mengi lakini sasa niko mbali na nyumbani,” alisema. Nimefanikiwa sana nandio dada zangu walinizuia, sijali kwa sababu hawanipi chakula.” “Nimemkumbuka dada yangu mkubwa. Alihama kwa sababu aliendelea kuwa na maswala na mama yetu, nilimsihi abaki lakini alisema afadhali kukosa makazi.”
@dianankem #CapCut i’m never going back to home. I almost lost my sanity staying there, the fact that they know how bad they are damaging you and still act like they dont see it was the heught of it. Most Nigerian parents hv no business in training a child honestly🥺 i was the last child and the most depressed, they tried to control my life so bad🥺 i dont want to say much but now that am far from home, i hv achieved alot and yes my sisters blocked me 😂 i dont care because they dont feed me #CapCut #sinceilefthome #queendiana #goviral
@nonamebecausewhynot alisema: “Ukweli ni kwamba ninaweza kukuunga mkono na uhusiano huu wa umbali mrefu unaonifaa mimi na familia yangu o.”
@vera aliongeza: “Ninaweza kuhusiana kabisa, hasa kama mzaliwa wa mwisho wanataka tu kudhibiti maisha yetu.”
@Claudine alijibu: “Sijisikii huru nikiwa nyumbani nataka tu kumaliza shule na kuondoka.”
@Mad Milito alisema: “Omo unapohama kutoka nyumbani njoo upate kazi nzuri zaidi njoo kukutana na watu wenye akili ambao wanaunga mkono familia yako watarudi kuomba.”
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