Abel Mutua Reveals Moments Judy Saw Him Cry
Abel Mutua, Kenya’s renowned scriptwriter, filmmaker, and digital storyteller, revealed that his wife Judy Nyawira had seen him cry twice in her life.
Mutua, also known as Mkurugenzi, revealed that she could have seen him crying more than two times, but men are not attached to their emotional feelings.
Mutua explained that Judy saw him crying when they were wedding and when he lost his beloved mother in 2009. He disclosed that his late mother didn’t attend his wedding since she was no more.
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“Believe it or not my wife has only seen me cry twice which is alarming, juu hiyo inashow as men, hatuko attached na emotions zetu kama wanaume. Anafaa kuwa ameniona nikilia several times.” He revealed.
The filmmaker pointed out that men should do away with the myth alleging men aren’t supposed to break down into tears. He said most men are dying inwardly since they can’t open up or look for an avenue to pour out their tears in search of help.
He advised men to check up and stand with their fellow men in times of pain and struggle. He stated that making merry with a man when he’s depressed doesn’t offer a solution but rather, after the merry, they should have a sit-down, allow the man to cry, and offer a concrete solution to his pain or struggle.
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“Tunafaa tupatie wanaume opportunity ya kulia. Acha mwanaume akae chini alie amalize na tukae na yeye tuangalie vile tutaendelea na yeye.
“Wasee wanakata maji na wanaume after 5PM to 2AM na mnaachana kwa hiyo meza nyinyi watano. Wanne wanaenda kwa manyumba zao na mmoja anaenda kulala kwa gari juu hana maskani, na mmekata maji na yeye…” He added as he advised men to speak up when depressed.
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