Dr. Ofweneke Reveals Alcohol Messed Up His Second Marriage

Sande Bush, popularly known as Dr. Ofweneke, has admitted that his actions contributed to the failure of two marriages.

Speaking to Radio 47, the journalist revealed that his poor leadership skills made his first marriage fail since he was deeply in love, and failed to lead as a husband.

“I was not a man enough to be in control of my marriage. The truth is, I became a yes husband. I failed to provide leadership as a man. And because of that, the marriage failed, and I left. ” Dr. Ofweneke revealed.

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“Man, if you’re a yes-yes man, you’ll lose that woman. Sometimes these women want a man who’s able to roar. I didn’t know how to roar. I was a weak man in love and let love control me.” He added.

Dr. Ofweneke went ahead and said his second marriage failed because of alcohol. He admitted that he used to spend most of the time in the club after a small altercation with his wife and rarely solved their issues soberly.

“My second marriage failed because of alcohol. I was too much of a drunkard. Nilikuwa ninakunywa pombe sana, arrive at home late, sleep because of the hangover, and not spend time with my wife.

I used to go to drink over something petty and return home at 5 am. Hata yeye mwenyewe, pombe ikaanza kumlemea, and we could not soberly solve issues. “ He revealed.

He added that his wife had her errors, but he doesn’t walk around airing her flaws to the public. However, he admitted his errors and advised men to own their mistakes after a failed relationship.

“I’m not ashamed. I messed up. I’m not perfect… Say the truth, accept the mistake, start working on yourself and heal. Mimi siwezi nikatembea nikiwabebesha makosa mama wa watoto wangu, pia mimi nilikosa. Hakuna vile mwanaume unawezalewa kila siku, it’s wrong.” He said.